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Named a Debut Book to Look Forward to This Summer by Bustle


“Audaciously human and raw. The Way She Feels is a rainbow during the rain.” —Mara Altman


A witty and one-of-a-kind debut graphic memoir detailing and drawing the life of a girl with borderline personality disorder finding her way—and herself—one day at a time.


What does it feel like to fall in love too hard and too fast, to hate yourself in equal and opposite measure? To live in such fear of rejection that you drive friends and lovers away? Welcome to my world. I’m Courtney, and I have borderline personality disorder (BPD), along with over four million other people in the United States. Though I’ve shown every classic symptom of the disorder since childhood, I wasn’t properly diagnosed until nearly a decade later, because the prevailing theory is that most people simply “grow out of it.” Not me.



In my illustrated memoir, The Way She Feels: My Life on the Borderline in Pictures and Pieces, I share what it’s been like to live and love with this disorder. Not just the hospitalizations, treatments, and residential therapy, but the moments I found comfort in cereal, the color pink, or mini corndogs; the days I couldn’t style my hair because I thought the blow-dryer was going to hurt me; the peace I found when someone I love held me. This is a book about vulnerability, honesty, acceptance, and how to speak openly—not only with doctors, co-patients, friends, family, or partners, but also with ourselves.

About the Author


Courtney Cook is a writer, illustrator, teacher, and lover of naps. Courtney received an undergraduate degree from the University of Michigan and an MFA in creative nonfiction from the University of California, Riverside. She grew up in Winnetka, Illinois, and now resides in Chicago with her cat, Bertie.

Praise For…


A tender, relatable book from a commanding new voice.
— Bustle

The Way She Feels is a lifeline to anyone who’s ever felt alone.

— Piper Weiss, author of You All Grow Up and Leave Me

Audaciously human and raw. The Way She Feels is a rainbow during the rain.

— Mara Altman, author of Gross Anatomy

Moving.... [Cook's] work makes the disorder a little less scary, taboo, and misunderstood. She writes candidly about her experiences with self-harm, dermatillomania (obsessive skin-picking), and numerous hospitalizations in an astounding way that feels like reading a friend’s diary. In fact, it often feels like she was one of my friends in high school. The book is raw, but also full of humor, heart, and oh so many bright colors.
— Book Riot

Candid and endearing. . . . In addition to a moving personal story, Cook provides a funny, heartfelt guide to borderline personality disorder and a distillation of adolescent tortures many readers will recognize. A poignant debut from a promising writer and illustrator.
— Kirkus, Starred Review

Pack[s] a powerful emotional punch.
— Early Bird Books

A smart, funny graphic memoir about living with BPD.
— Marbles Magazine


Product Details
ISBN: 9781951142599
ISBN-10: 1951142594
Publisher: Tin House Books
Publication Date: June 29th, 2021
Pages: 250
Language: English